拒绝的唯美句子英语

拒绝的唯美句子英语

1. 求有礼貌去拒绝的英语句子

1.昨天我买了一台录音机，但他不响.（buy radio work）

2.当我思考数学题时，有人问我问题我特别恼火（annoy question think about）

3.Tom，马上起床好吗？ 你得帮我做一个大蛋糕.（please get up have to）

4.在公共汽车上，售票员常说，您介意出示一下您的票吗？（conductor tickets show）

5.如果有人要抄你的作业，你应该礼貌地拒绝他这样做.（refuse someone copy）

I bought a radio yesterday,but it can not work .

when I think the questions about maths ,I am annoyed with him who ask me some questions .

would you get up right now , Tom ? You have to help me to make a cake please .

w hen you are in the bus , the conductor always says that do you mind to show me your ticket ?

if someone want to copy your homework ,you should refuse him in polite.

2. 简短唯美的英语句子

Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

纵然伤心，也不要愁眉不展，因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。

Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

不要因为结束而哭泣，微笑吧，为你的曾经拥有。No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.

没有人值得你流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。

Never frown, even when you are sad,

because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

纵然伤心，也不要愁眉不展，因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。

The sandflass remembers the time we lost

沙漏记得`我们遗忘的时光

3. 有关拒绝别人的英语句子

I would like to go with you but my mother ask me to help her with the housework

I'm afraid that I have to attend a meeting this afternoon

How I wish I can go with you but。.

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4. 唯美的英文句子

1、Tell yourself everyday: I am really great. 每天告诉自己：我真的很不错！ 2、Life is like an ice cream. Enjoy it before it melts. 生活就像奇彩炫，请在它融化前，及时享受。

3、If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. 如果她很棒，不会很好追；如果她好追，就不会很棒；如果她值得，你就不应放弃；如果你放弃了，就是你不配！ 4、Life isn't a competition. It's a journey. If you spend that journey always trying to impress others, to outdo others, you're wasting your journey. 生命并不是一场竞赛，而是一段旅程。如果你在途中一直都试图给他人留下深刻印象，超过别人，那你就浪费了这段旅程。

5、We spend money that we do not have, on things we do not need, to impress people who do not care. 我们花我们未拥有的钱，去买一些我们不需要的东西，就为了使无关紧要的人对我们印象深刻。 6、Being single doesn't mean no one wants you. It means you're taking your time deciding about your life and who you want to spend it with. 单身族并不是没有人爱，而是需要更多的时间去找寻真正能够与我们共度一生的人。

7、It doesn't matter what others think of you, what matters most is how you see yourself. 别人如何看待你并不重要，最重要的是你如何看待你自己。 8、Protect her, fight for her, kiss her, love her, hold her, laugh with her. But don't make her fall, if you don't plan to catch her. 保护她，争取她，吻她，爱她，拥抱她，和她一起欢笑。

但若你没有打算一直守护她，请别让她堕入爱河。 9、There's always a bit of something hidden when you say 'nothing'. 每次当你说“没事”的时候，心里多少都藏着点事。

10、Don't wait for the perfect moment. Take the moment and make it perfect！ 不要等待那一个完美的时刻，要掌握现在这一刻，使它变得完美！ 11、Do not complain that life is too unfair to you just because life simply does not know who you are. 不要抱怨生活对你不公平，因为生活压根就不知道你是谁。 12、Each day is a new life. Seize it. Live it. 每天都是一次新的生命，把握住它，好好生活。

13、Everyone has a sad, want to hide, but he who denies all confesses all. 每个人都有一段悲伤，想隐藏却欲盖弥彰。 14、Make up your mind to act decidedly and take the consequences. No good is ever done in this world by hesitation. 下定决心，果断行动，并承担后果，在这世界上犹豫不决成就不了任何事。

15、There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go. 总有一些事，我们不愿它发生，却必须接受；总有些东西，我们不想知道，却必须了解；总有些人，我们不能没有，却必须学着放手。 16、You might hate your life, but others may dream of having a life such as yours. 你可能讨厌你的生活，但其他人可能在梦想着过你这样的生活。

17、You are a part of a puzzle 0f someone's life. You may never know where you fit, but always remember that someone's life may not be complete without you！ 你是某人生命拼图中的一小块，也许你永远都不知道自己的位置，但请记住：没有你，他的生命是不完整的。 18、An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but some time for forgetting. A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding. 一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是一段可以用来遗忘的时间。

一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。 19、They invented hugs to let people know you love them without say anything. 人类发明了拥抱，让人知道你爱他们，什么都不用说。

20、Regardless of whether or not keep relationship with you, I would want to let you know. You are my only obsession. 不管是否与你在一起，只想让你知道，你是我唯一的执著。

5. 唯美的英语句子

The purpose of art is washing tne dust of daily life off our souls.

艺术的使命是在与洗刷我们灵魂中日积月累的灰尘

If wrinkles must be written upon ourbrows,the only thing you can do is not letting them be written upon the heart.

如果额头终将刻上皱纹，你只能做到，不让皱纹刻在你心上

Life is full of chances.But the important stuff doesn't change.

生活是充满变动的，但一些重要的东西永远不会变

6. 写出关于“告别过去”的唯美英语句子

1、If you confer a benefit, never remember it; if you receive one, remember it always.

施恩勿记，受恩勿忘。

2、Joy shared with others are more enjoyed.

与人同乐，其乐无穷。

3、Emancipate yourself from the past. The only way to move forward is to stop looking back!

把自己从过去解放出来，前进的唯一方法是别往后看。

4、Over-thinking leads to negative thoughts.

想得太多，会变得很消极。

5、Never use your eyes to cry for the wrong person who hurt you. Instead use it to search for the right one.

眼睛，不应该用来为伤害你的人哭泣，而应该用来寻找那个正确的人。

6、I'd rather live my life knowing that I'm not perfect, than spending my whole life pretending to be.

我宁愿坦然地，不完美的过一辈子，也不要一辈子都假装自己很完美。

7、Sometimes what you want isn't always what you get, but in the end what you get is so much better than what you wanted.

很多时候，你得不到你想要的，但最终，你拥有的一定比当初渴望的要好得多。

8、It only takes one negative comment to kill a dream.

只是一句打击人的话，就能灭掉一个人内心的梦想。

9、You are not your past, your body, your mind, your emotions.

你的过去，你的身体，你的思想，你的情绪都不能单独代表你。

10、It's okay to be afraid of losing the person you really care. But it's not okay if the person doesn't really care of losing you.

担心失去一个你在乎的人，情有可原，但是，担心失去一个不在乎你的人，没有必要。

11、Respect the people who find time for you in their busy schedule. But love the people who never look at their schedule when you need them.

尊重那些在忙碌的日程中为你腾出空档的人，爱那些你需要他们的时候从不看他们日程的。

12、You can always be a worse version of “him”, or better version of yourself.

不是要做一个单纯优秀的人，而是要做一个不可替代的人。

13、Sometimes there's nothing to say. Sometimes silence expresses more than words do.

有时候，不需要说什么，沉默比话语表达得更多。

14、Jules Verne: Anything one man can imagine, other men can make real.

凡尔纳：但凡能想象到的事物，必定有人能将它实现。

15、I am not afraid of tomorrow, for I have seen yesterday and love today.

我不害怕明天，因为我经历过昨天，又热爱今天。

7. 一些唯美的英文句子,带翻译

1、To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world. 对于世界而言，你是一个人；但是对于某个人，你是他的整个世界。

2、No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry. 没有人值得你流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。 3、Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. 纵然伤心，也不要愁眉不展，因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。

4、We met at the wrong time, but separated at the right time. The most urgent is to take the most beautiful scenery; the deepest wound was the most real emotions. 我们在错误的时间相遇，在正确的时间却又分开。 走的最急的是最美的景色，伤的最深的是最真的感情。

5、Time would heal almost all wounds. If your wounds have not been healed up, please wait for a short while. 时间几乎会愈合所有伤口，如果你的伤口还没有愈合，请给时间一点时间！ 6、There's a difference between "love" and "like". If you like a flower you will pick it, but if you love a flower, you will water it every day. 爱与喜欢是有区别的。如果你喜欢一朵花，你会摘下它，但你要是爱它，你会每天灌溉它。

7、No need to have a reason to love you. Anything can be a reason not to love you .喜欢你，不需要理由；不喜欢你，什么都可以成为理由。 8、Life is sad at times, but it is up to you to make your own life happy. 生活有时是令人沮丧的，但你可以努力让自己的过得开心。

9、Never think hard about past. It brings tears… Don't think more about future.Itbringsfears… Live this moment with a smile. It brings cheers. 不要太想念过去，因它会给你带来悲伤；不要太思考未来，因它会带给你恐惧；用微笑活在当下，它会带来喜乐。 10、No matter how long the rain lasts, there will be a rainbow in the end. No matter how sad you may be, believe, that happiness is waiting. 不管雨下多久，最终彩虹总会出现。

不管你有多难过，始终要相信，幸福就在 不远处。 11、Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. it's about learning to dance in the rain. 人生不是坐等暴风雨过去，而是学会在雨中起舞。

12、Three solutions to every problem: accept it, change it, leave it. If you can't accept it, change it. If you can't change it, leave it. 有三个方法可以解决所有的问题。接受，改变，放开。

不能接受那就改变，不能改变，那就放开。 13、Because the things you're scared of are usually the most worthwhile. 每天都尝试去一件你害怕的事情，因为，你所害怕的事情，往往是最值得的。

14、The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience. 人生的目标就是要好好地活，尝尽世间百态，勇敢积极地去体验新的、丰富的经历。 15、Sometimes, we need a little tears to clear the mist in our eyes, a little assurance to clear the doubts in our head, a little hug to nurse our aching heart. 有时候，我们需要一点眼泪去洗掉眼中的迷雾，一点保证去扫去脑中的怀疑，一点拥抱去疗愈受伤的心，一点休息去继续前行。

16、When life give you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile. 当生活给你一百个理由哭泣时，你就拿出一千个理由笑给它看。 17、Use your smile to change the world. Don't let the world change your smile. 用你的笑容去改变这个世界，别让这个世界改变了你的笑容。

18、When I wake up every morning, the greatest joy is gazing upon you and sunshine, that is the future I desire. 每天早上醒来，最大的愉悦就是看到你和阳光都在，这就是我想要的未来。 19、Life only comes around once. So make sure you're spending it the right way, with the right ones.生命只有一次，我们要以正确的方式，和正确的人一起度过。

20、When you wake up in the morning, set a goal that today you must be better than yesterday. Do it everyday, grow better！ 早上醒来时，给自己定个目标：今天一定要比昨天好！每天坚持，一定会大有收获！ 21、The biggest mistake we have made in our daily life is to be too polite to strangers but too strict to close friends. 人们日常所犯最大的错误，是对陌生人太客气，而对亲密的人太苛刻。 22、There's nothing more beautiful than a smile that struggles through tears. - 世上最美的，莫过于从泪水中挣脱出来的那个微笑。

23、Dream what you want to dream;go where you want to go;be what you want to be,because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. 做你想做的梦吧，去你想去的地方吧，成为你想成为的人吧，因为你只有一次生命，一个机会去做所有那些你想做的事。 24、If you're brave enough to say GOODBYE, life will reward you with a new HELLO. 只要你勇敢地说出再见，生活一定会赐予你一个新的开始。

25、Love look not with the eyes, but with the 。

8. 跪求唯美的英语句子~~~~

一、30句经典英语句子 1. Pain past is pleasure.（过去的痛苦就是快乐。）

[无论多么艰难一定要咬牙冲过去，将来回忆起来一定甜蜜无比。] 2. While there is life, there is hope.（有生命就有希望/留得青山在，不怕没柴烧。）

3. Wisdom in the mind is better than money in the hand.（脑中有知识，胜过手中有金钱。）[从小灌输给孩子的坚定信念。

] 4. Storms make trees take deeper roots.（风暴使树木深深扎根。）[感激敌人，感激挫折！] 5. Nothing is impossible for a willing heart.（心之所愿，无所不成。）

[坚持一个简单的信念就一定会成功。] 6. The shortest answer is doing.（最简单的回答就是干。）

[想说流利的英语吗？那么现在就开口！心动不如嘴动。] 7. All things are difficult before they are easy.（凡事必先难后易。）

[放弃投机取巧的幻想。] 8. Great hopes make great man. （伟大的理想造就伟大的人。）

9. God helps those who help themselves.（天助自助者。） 10. Four short words sum up what has lifted most successful individuals above the crowd: a little bit more.（四个简短的词汇概括了成功的秘诀：多一点点！）[比别人多一点努力、多一点自律、多一点决心、多一点反省、多一点学习、多一点实践、多一点疯狂，多一点点就能创造奇迹！] 11. In doing we learn.（实践长才干。）

12. East or west, home is best.（东好西好，还是家里最好。） 13. Two heads are better than one.（三个臭皮匠，顶个诸葛亮。）

14. Good company on the road is the shortest cut.（行路有良伴就是捷径。） 15. Constant dropping wears the stone.（滴水穿石。）

16. Misfortunes never come alone/single.（祸不单行。） 17. Misfortunes tell us what fortune is.（不经灾祸不知福。）

18. Better late than never.（迟做总比不做好；晚来总比不来好。） 19. It's never too late to mend.（过而能改，善莫大焉；亡羊补牢，犹未晚也。）

20. If a thing is worth doing it is worth doing well.（如果事情值得做，就值得做好。） 21. Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.（无热情成就不了伟业。）

22. Actions speak louder than words.（行动比语言更响亮。） 23. Lifeless, faultless.（只有死人才不犯错误。）

24. From small beginning come great things.（伟大始于渺小。） 25. One today is worth two tomorrows.（一个今天胜似两个明天。）

26. Truth never fears investigation.（事实从来不怕调查。） 27. The tongue is boneless but it breaks bones.（舌无骨却能折断骨。）

28. A bold attempt is half success.（勇敢的尝试是成功的一半。） 29. Knowing something of everything and everything of something.（通百艺而专一长。）

30. Good advice is beyond all price.（忠告是无价宝。） 二、10句不得不学的英语 1.What the fuck is going on？（到底他妈的怎么回事？） 通常此话出于黑人之口，且口气最宜为疑惑，不解，愤怒等等。

若是白人则多数时候会说-What the hell is going on？ 意义相同而适用于更多场合。 说此话之人身份通常为上级，且相处较久。

不过如果你出差回家时看见老婆身边躺着个赤条条的陌生人，那它可就派上大用场了！ 2.You son of pregnant dog！ （你个狗娘养的！） 令人意外的是，最爱说这句话的往往是女性。 越高贵，越端庄的女性越容易在压力达到一定值时便会脱口而出。

万万不要和有文化的MM顶嘴，否则被骂了还以为受表扬了呢！ 3.All rise！ （全体起立！） 国产英语老师最误人子弟的就是口语太差，爱说想当然口语。 从小学到高中英语课代表一直喊的是-Stand up！ 当然没什么不可以，但为什么不说标准的话呢？就象我们朗读中文时说普通话一样！ 4.It's bullnuts！ （胡说八道！屁话！） 这句话一旦学会，包你用的乐不思蜀。

用途太广泛啦！ 最绝是和老妈抬杠时搬出来，用你的眼睛直视她，以忏悔的口气说出. 什么？你老妈是外交官？ 5. d**n it！（可恶！） 此句往往从某个孤胆英雄的嘴中冒出，发音要轻，然口气要重！ 此英雄往往正面临生死抉择，例如是先剪蓝线还是先剪红线等。 说时要有壮士一去不复返的气势！ 此句适合用在被MM拒绝时，向MM的背影说出！ 万万不可忘记要配合以右手中指的朝天一刺！ 6.It's none of your business！（关你屁事！） 此句已接近经典！ 当你在网上浏览不健康网站遭到网吧老板的劝阻时， 它往往能建下奇功！ 7.Come on！ 此句因拥有太多含义，所以注释欠奉。

但它确实非常necessary！ 所有的鬼佬一天不说个十七八遍就会浑身发痒。 它的经典之处你就好好体会吧！ 8. Ditto！ （俺也是！） 本不是常用语，不过看过“幽灵”一片的人都染上了男主角的坏习惯。

从来不说I love you！ 总是“俺也是，俺也是！”的把MM们气得口吐白沫！ 实际上你也可以说“Me too！”或“Me also！”，不过总是不够文艺腔！ 差了那么一点点味道和情调. 9.How can I forget such a beautiful girl/sexy boy？ 此句在重逢某个你早已心仪的MM或GG是不妨拿来用用！ 当对方还沉浸在陶醉中时， 你可以利用这段时间好好想想对方的名字！ 10.I had no choice！（俺也是被逼无奈。

9. 唯美的英文句子加翻译

1 我的世界不允许你的消失，不管结局是否完美. No matter the ending is perfect or not, you cannot disappear from my world. 2 爱情是一个精心设计的谎言 Love is a carefully designed lie. 3 承诺常常很像蝴蝶，美丽的飞盘旋然后不见 Promises are often like the butterfly, which disappear after beautiful hover. 4 凋谢是真实的 盛开只是一种过去 Fading is true while flowering is past 5 为什么幸福总是擦肩而过，偶尔想你的时候….就让….回忆来陪我. Why I have never catched the happiness? Whenever I want you ,I will be accompanyed by the memory of。

6 如果你为着错过夕阳而哭泣，那么你就要错群星了 If you weeped for the missing sunset,you would miss all the shining stars 7 如果只是遇见，不能停留，不如不遇见 If we can only encounter each other rather than stay with each other,then I wish we had never encountered . 8 宁愿笑著流泪，也不哭著说后悔 心碎了，还需再补吗？ I would like weeping with the smile rather than repenting with the cry,when my heart is broken ,is it needed to fix? 9 天空没有翅膀的痕迹，而鸟儿已飞过 There are no trails of the wings in the sky, while the birds has flied away. 10 当香烟爱上火柴时，就注定受到伤害 When a cigarette falls in love with a match,it is destined to be hurt 11 人活着 总是要得罪一些人的 就要看那些人是否值得得罪 When alive ,we may probably offend some people.However, we must think about whether they are deserved offended. 12 命里有时终需有 命里无时莫强求 You will have it if it belongs to you,whereas you don't kveth for it if it doesn't appear in your life. 13 没有谁对不起谁，只有谁不懂得珍惜谁. No one indebted for others,while many people don't know how to cherish others. 14 永远不是一种距离，而是一种决定。 Eternity is not a distance but a decision. 15 在回忆里继续梦幻不如在地狱里等待天堂 Dreaming in the memory is not as good as waiting for the paradise in the hell 16 哪里有真爱存在，哪里就有奇迹 Where there is great love, there are always miracles. 17 爱情就像一只蝴蝶，它喜欢飞到哪里，就把欢乐带到哪里。

Love is like a butterfly. It goes where it pleases and it pleases where it goes. 18 假如每次想起你我都会得到一朵鲜花，那么我将永远在花丛中徜徉。If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden. 19 有了你，我迷失了自我；失去你，我多么希望自己再度迷失。

Within you I lose myself, without you I find myself wanting to be lost again. 20 每一个沐浴在爱河中的人都是诗人 At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet. 21 看看我的眼睛，你会发现你对我而言意味着什么。Look into my eyes you will see what you mean to me. 22 距离使两颗心靠得更近。

Distance makes the hearts grow fonder. 23 如果没有相等的爱，那就让我爱多一些吧。 If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving be me. 24 爱是长在我们心里的藤蔓。

Love is a vine that grows into our hearts. 25 因为你，我懂得了爱。If I know what love is, it is because of you. 26 爱情是生活最好的提神剂。

Love is the greatest refreshment in life. 27 有了你，黑暗不再是黑暗。The darkness is no darkness with thee. 28 如果没有人爱我们，我们也就不会再爱自己了。

We cease loving ourselves if no one loves us. 28 治疗爱的创伤唯有加倍地去爱。 There is no remedy for love but to love more. 30 如果爱不疯狂就不是爱了。

When love is not madness, it is not love. 31 有爱的心永远年轻。 A heart that loves is always young. 32 爱情就像月亮，不增则减。

Love is like the moon, when it does not increase, it decreases. 33 灵魂不能没有爱而存在。 The soul cannot live without love. 34 生命虽短，爱却绵长。

Brief is life, but love is long. 35 爱比大衣更能驱走寒冷。Love keeps the cold out better than a cloak. 36 没有了爱，地球便成了坟墓。

Take away love, and our earth is a tomb. 37 我的爱与你同在。 My heart is with you. 38 尽管还不曾离开，我已对你朝思暮想！I miss you so much already and I haven't even left yet! 39 我会想你，在漫漫长路的每一步。

I'll think of you every step of the way. 40 无论你身在何处，无论你为何忙碌，我都会在此守候Wherever you go, whatever you do, I will be right here waiting for you. 41 热烈的爱情是不可抑制的渴望。 Passionate love is a quenchless thirst. 42 在这个世界上，男人最珍贵的财产就是一个女人的心。

The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman's heart. 43 没有你的日子就像一本没有书页的书。 Every day without you is like a book without pages. 44 爱很难投入，但一旦投入，便更难走出Love is hard to get into, but harder to get out of. 45 爱是一盏永不昏暗的明灯。

Love is a light that never dims. 46 愿你的爱乘着飞翔的白鸽，展翅高飞。 May your love soar on the wings of a dove in flight. 47 人活着总。

如何用英语拒绝他人而又不显得冷漠

面对别人不合理的要求，自己不想做的事情，应该勇敢得拒绝，不敢拒绝别人，总是太考虑别人的感受是一种危险的心理. 相信很多人都有这样的经历，那如何有效地拒绝呢？英语对话中如何拒绝别人呢？下面小博给大家整理了中英文对照版，有关拒绝的表达语句，一起来看看吧！

Why Say No

拒绝别人的原因

• People will respect you. People who say yes to everything in an attempt to be liked are quickly recognized as pushovers.

人们会尊重你。人们之所以言听计从，是力图被别人喜欢，但很快就会被认为是容易搞定的人。

• When you say no to someone you are letting them know that you have boundaries. You are showing that you respect yourself--and that is how you gain respect from others.当

你拒绝他人的时候，你是在告诉他们，你也有底线。你是在展示对自己的尊重——这就是你赢得他人尊重的原因。

• People will actually see you as more dependable. When you say yes only when you have the time and true ability to do a great job, then you'll gain a reputation for being dependable.If you say yes to everything, you're bound to do a bad job at everything.

人们会觉得你很可靠。当你只有在有时间和能力做好的时候才答应别人，你就能为自己赢来可靠的名声。如果你对什么都是言听计从，你一定什么都做不好。

• When you're selective with your tasks, you'll sharpen your natural strengths. If you concentrate on the things you're good at, you'll be able to improve on your natural talents. For example, if you're a great writer but you're not so great as an artist, you may volunteer to write speeches but you shouldn't sign up to make the posters for your club. Concentrate on your strength and build your skills (and your experience) for college.

当你有选择性地对待你的任务，你就可以提高自己的天然优势。如果你将注意力集中在你所擅长的事情上，你就可以改善自己的天赋。例如，如果你是一个出色的作家，但你在艺术方面则没有什么天赋，你可能就会自发地写一写演讲稿，但你却不会签约去为你的俱乐部制作海报。将注意力集中在你的长处上，锻炼自己在大学的技术(和经验)。

• Your life will be less stressful. You may be tempted to say yes to people in order to please them. In the long run, you're only hurting yourself and others when you do this. You stress yourself out by overloading yourself, and you experience increased stress when you realize you're bound to let them down.

你的生活也会少些压力。你可能为了取悦一些人而答应他们某些事。从长远看，当你这样做的时候，你只是在伤害你自己和他人。你使自己超载，从而不堪重负，当你意识到你一定会让别人失望的时候，你的压力也会也会与之剧增。

When to Say No

什么时候应该拒绝别人

• First let's point out the obvious: do your homework.

首先指出显而易见的：

• You should never say no to a teacher, friend, or family member who is merely asking you to live up to your responsibilities. It's not okay to say no to a class assignment, just because you don't feel like doing it for some reason. This is not an exercise in cockiness.

你不应该拒绝你的老师，朋友或家人，因为他们仅仅是在告诉你，不要辜负自己的责任。你不应该因为一些原因不想做就拒绝做家庭作业。这可不是在考验你的骄傲自大。

• It is OK to say no when somebody is asking you to step outside your true responsibilities and outside your comfort zone to take on a task that is dangerous or one that will overload you and affect your academic work and your reputation.

当某人想让你做职责范围或舒适区以外的危险的事，或者是增加你的负担和影响你的学业和名誉的事，你就应该拒绝别人。

For example:

例如

• If a teacher suggests that you become the president of a club that he or she is advising, but your schedule is already over-packed.

若如果老师推荐了一个俱乐部，建议你担任俱乐部主席，但是你的日程表已经排满了。

• If a popular athlete asks you to help with his/her homework and you don't have time.

如果一个有人气的运动员拜托你帮他写作业，但你没时间。

• If anybody asks you to do their homework for them.

如果有人让你帮他们做作业。

• If anybody asks you to give them information that was on a test (if they have a later class with the same teacher).

如果有人让你给他们提供有关考试的信息(如果他们跟你是一个老师，只不过是后进来的)。

• It can be very difficult to say no to somebody whom you really respect, but you'll find that you actually gain respect from them when you show enough courage to say no.

拒绝你所尊重的人会很难，但你会发现，当你表现出足够的勇气来拒绝他们的时候，你实际上也得到了尊重。

How to Say No

怎样拒绝别人

• We say yes to people because it's easy. Learning to say no is like learning anything: it seems really scary at first, but it's so rewarding when you get the hang of it!

我们答应别人某事很简单。学会拒绝就像学习其他任何事一样：一开始似乎很可怕，但当你学会之后，对你就十分有益。

• The trick to saying no is doing it firmly without sounding rude. You must avoid being wishy-washy. Here are some lines you can practice:

拒绝别人的窍门就是，坚定地去做，但不要使自己听上去很粗鲁。你必须避免苍白无力的拒绝。这里有一些拒绝的话语可供你练习。

• If a teacher asks you to take on more responsibility than you need: Thank you for thinking of me, but I will have to say no. I'm just over-scheduled at this time.

如果老师想让你做你职责范围之外的事：谢谢您能想到我，但我还是得拒绝。这次我的日程表都排满了。

• If a teacher asks you to do something you don't feel comfortable with: This sounds like it would be a great opportunity for somebody, but it's not right for me.

如果老师让你做一些会让你不舒服的事：这对于别人来说真是一个好机会，但对我来说不是。

• If somebody wants you to cheat: Sorry, I don't share my homework. That would get us both in trouble.

如果某人想让你作弊：抱歉，我不想和别人分享自己的家庭作业。这会给我们两人都带来麻烦的。

• If somebody tries to push work off on you: I just don't have the time to do a good job at that right now.

如果某人把工作推给你：我现在没时间去做好这项工作。

• If somebody tries to overload you with a task: I can't do that because I have an assignment due tomorrow.

如果某人想给你增加工作量：我不行，因为手头有工作要做，明天就是截止日期了。

• If somebody tries to unload a problem on you: I understand your situation, but I don't have an answer for you.

如果某人想把麻烦甩给你：我明白你的处境，但我不会答应你的。

When You Have to Say Yes

什么时候可以答应别人的请求

• There will be times when you want to say no but you can’t. If you're working on a group project, you have to take on some of the work, but you don't want to volunteer for everything. When you have to say yes, you can do it with firm conditions.

总会有一些时候，你想拒绝但又不能拒绝。如果你在做团体任务，你就得承担一些工作，但你不会想承担所有的工作。当你只能答应别人时，你就得坚定地去做。

• A conditional "yes" may be necessary if you know you should do something but you also know you don't have all the time or resources. An example of a conditional yes is: "Yes, I'll make the posters for the club, but I won't pay for all the supplies."

如果你知道，你应该做一些事，但你的时间和资源也是有限的，这时候有条件的答应别人是必要的。关于有条件的答应有一个例子：“是，我可以为俱乐部制作海报，但我不会包揽所有的事儿。”

• Saying no is all about gaining respect. Gain respect for yourself by saying no when it's necessary. Gain the respect of others by saying no in a polite way.

拒绝能让你获得尊重。必要的时候，你要通过拒绝别人来为自己获得尊重。在通过拒绝别人获得尊重的时候，还要以礼貌的方式进行。