婚姻的英文名言

婚姻的英文名言

1.求英文的关于婚姻的经典语录

Marriage is more than four bare legs in a bed.

—— Hoshang N. Akhtar

婚姻是四个多裸露的双腿在床上。

A good marriage is like a casserole, only those responsible for it really know what goes in it.

—— Anonymous

A little girl at the wedding afterwards asked her mother why the bride changed her mind. “What do you mean?” responded her mother. “Well, she went down the aisle with one man, and came back with another.”

—— Anonymous

Is it better for a woman to marry a man who loves her than a man she loves.

—— Anonymous

Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner.

—— Amy Bloom

I married the first man I ever kissed. When I tell this to my children they just about throw up.

—— Barbara Bush, first lady, 1989

There is nothing nobler or more admirable than when two people who see eye to eye keep house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and delighting their friends.

—— Homer, Odyssey, ninth century B.C.

There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage

—— Martin Luther

Marriages are made in heaven and consummated on Earth.

—— John Lyly

A good marriage is at least 80 percent good luck in finding the right person at the right time. The rest is trust.

—— Nanette Newman, British actress

Marriage resembles a pair of shears, so joined that they cannot be separated; often moving in opposite directions, yet always punishing any one who comes between them.

—— Sydney Smith

With this ring I thee wed, with my body I thee worship, and with all my worldly good I thee endow.

—— Wedding Vow, Book of Common Prayer

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2.有关爱情的英语名言警句

1、“Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own.” – H. Jackson Brown, Jr.“

爱情就是把别人的幸福看得比自己的重要。”——美国杰尔逊•布朗《爱别人》

2、“You can't blame gravity for falling love.” – Albert Einstein“

你不能因陷入爱情而责备重力。”——德国阿尔伯特•爱因斯坦《语录》

3、“Don't forget to love yourself.” – Soren Kierkegaard“

别忘了爱你自己。”——丹麦索伦•克尔凯郭尔《非此即彼》

4、“The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” – Audrey Hepburn“

生活中最好的事情是拥有彼此。”——比利时奥黛丽•赫本《罗马假日》

5、“I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.“

我决定去爱。因为仇恨是一个很大的负担。”——美国马丁•路德•金《我有一个梦想》

6、“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” – Aristotle“

爱情是在两个不同的身体里住着同一个灵魂。”——希腊亚里士多德《形而上学》

7、“Love doesn't make the world go 'round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.” – Franklin P. Jones“

爱情不能使地球运转，但爱情能让你的人生旅途更有价值。”——美国富兰克林•琼斯《富兰克林自传》

8、“At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet.” – Plato“

恋爱中的每个人都是诗人。”——古希腊柏拉图《理想国》

9、“The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.” – Helen Keller “

世界上最美好的事情往往是看不见也听不见的，我们必须用心去感受。”——美国海伦•凯勒《假如给我三天光明》

10、“If I know what love is, it is because of you.” – Herman Hesse“

因为你，我才知道了什么是爱情。”——德国赫尔曼•黑塞《东方之旅》

3.英文爱情名言

1)I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you. 我爱你，不是因为你是一个怎样的人，而是因为我喜欢与你在一起时的感觉。

2) No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry. 没有人值得你流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。 3) The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them. 失去某人，最糟糕的莫过于，他近在身旁，却犹如远在天边。

4) Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. 纵然伤心，也不要愁眉不展，因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。 5) To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world. 对于世界而言，你是一个人；但是对于某个人，你是他的整个世界。

6) Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you. 不要为那些不愿在你身上花费时间的人而浪费你的时间。 7) Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. 爱你的人如果没有按你所希望的方式来爱你，那并不代表他们没有全心全意地爱你。

8) Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to. 不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。 9) Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful. 在遇到梦中人之前，上天也许会安排我们先遇到别的人；在我们终于遇见心仪的人时， 便应当心存感激。

10)Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened. 不要因为结束而哭泣，微笑吧，为你的曾经拥有。11)A friend that you buy with presents will be bought from you. 用礼物“买来”的朋友终会被买走。

——Thomas Fuller 12)Friendship is the golden thread that ties the hearts of all the world. 友谊是一根金线，把全世界的心连在一起。 ——J.Evelyn 13)Without confidence there is no friendship. 没有信任，就没有友谊。

——Epicurus 14)In prosperity our friends know us; in adversity we know our friends. 在顺境中，朋友结识了我们；在逆境中，我们了解了朋友。——C.Collins 15)Friendship is like money, easier made than kept. 友谊如金钱一般，容易得到却不易保持。

——Samuel Butler 16)Friendship often ends in love, but love, in friendship—never 友谊常以爱情而结束；而爱情从不能以友谊而告终。——C.C.Colton 17)Suspicion is the poison of friendship. 猜疑对友谊而言是一种毒药。

——St.Augustine 18)Do not speak of your happiness to one less fortunate than yourself. 不要向不如你幸福的人说你自己的幸福。 ——Plutarch 19)Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself. 幸福犹如香水，你不可能泼向别人而自己却不沾几滴。

——Emerson 20)It is impossible to love and to be wise. 爱令智昏。——Francis Bacon 21)If you would be loved, love and be lovable. 想被人爱，就要去爱别人，并让自己可爱。

——Benjamin Franklin 22)A brother may not be a friend, but a friend will always be a brother. 兄弟未必是朋友，而朋友总是兄弟。 ——Benjamin Franklin 23)Love, friendship, respect, do not unite people as much as a common hatred for something. 爱情、友谊和尊敬都不如对某物的共同的恨那样能把人们团结起来。

——Chekhow 24)The course of true love never did run smooth. 通向真爱的路从无坦途。——Shakespeare 25)Where there is marriage without love, there will be love without marriage. 有没有爱情的婚姻，就会有没有婚姻的爱情。

——Benjamin Franklin 26)If you would keep your secret from an enemy, tell it not to a friend. 如果不想让你的敌人得知你的秘密，就不要把秘密告诉你的朋友。 ——Benjamin Franklin 27)To really know someone is to have loved and hated him in turn. 在爱过和恨过一个人之后才能真正了解他。

——Marcel Jouhandeau 28)True friendship foresees the needs of other rather than proclaim it's own. 真正的友人总是考虑别人的需要而不是提出自己的要求。——A.Maurois 29)Good company on the road is the shortest cut. 有了好的旅伴，路途就变得无比短暂。

——Oliver Goldsmith 30)Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence. 爱是对人类之存在这一问题唯一明智而又令人满意的答案。——Erich Fromm 31)A happy man or woman is a better thing to find than a five-pound note. 碰见一个快乐的人比捡到一张五镑钞票还要好。

——R.L.stevenson 32)Friendships last when each friend thinks he has a slight superiority over the other. 当朋友之间互相都觉得比对方稍稍优越时，友谊便能长久下去。 ——Honore de Balzac 33)First love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity. 初恋只不过是些愚蠢加上大量的好奇。

4.英语爱情名言

Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.幸福犹如香水，你不可能泼向别人而自己却不沾几滴。

——Emerson It is impossible to love and to be wise.爱令智昏。——Francis Bacon If you would be loved, love and be lovable.想被人爱，就要去爱别人，并让自己可爱。

——Benjamin Franklin Love, friendship, respect, do not unite people as much as a common hatred for something. 爱情、友谊和尊敬都不如对某物的共同的恨那样能把人们团结起来。——Chekhow The course of true love never did run smooth. 通向真爱的路从无坦途。

——Shakespeare Where there is marriage without love, there will be love without marriage. 有没有爱情的婚姻，就会有没有婚姻的爱情。——Benjamin Franklin To really know someone is to have loved and hated him in turn.在爱过和恨过一个人之后才能真正了解他。

——Marcel Jouhandeau Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence. 爱是对人类之存在这一问题唯一明智而又令人满意的答案。——Erich Fromm First love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity. 初恋只不过是些愚蠢加上大量的好奇。

——G.B.Shaw Love is frail at birth, but it grows stronger with age if it is properly fed. 爱在起始阶段是脆弱的，但如果悉心呵护，它会随着时间的推移而牢固起来。——Ovid Love is the active concern for the life and the growth of that which we love.爱是种对那些为我们所爱的人或物的生活、成长积极主动的关心。

——Erith Fromm Real love stories never have endings.真正的爱情故事从来不会结束。——Richard Bach The best proof of love is trust.爱的最好证明就是信任。

——Joyce Brothers。

5.关于珍惜爱情的英语名言警句

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

爱你的人如果没有按你所希望的方式来爱你，那并不能够代表他们没有全心全意地爱你。

To love and to be loved is the greatest happiness of existence.

爱人和被人爱是人生最大的幸福。

Love makes the world go round. 爱使世界转动。——Charles Dickens

Love is a master key which opens the gate of happiness.

爱是打开快乐之门的万能钥匙。

The darkness is no darkness with you.

有了你，黑暗不再是黑暗。

There is no remedy for love but to love more.

治疗爱的创伤唯有加倍地去爱。

Therefore, if you desire love, try to realize that the only way to get love is by giving love, that the more you give, the more you get.

如果你渴望爱，你需意识到得到爱的唯一方法就是付出爱，你付出的越多，得到的就越多。

6.关于爱情的的英文短句

百度知道里的 借用仅供参考1、想你，是一种美丽的忧伤的甜蜜的惆怅，心里面，却是一种用任何语言也无法表达的温馨。

It is graceful grief and sweet sadness to think of you, but in my heart, there is a kind of soft warmth that can't be expressed with any choice of words。2、你知道思念一个人的滋味吗，就像喝了一大杯冰水，然后用很长很长的时间流成热泪。

Do you understand the feeling of missing someone? It is just like that you will spend a long hard time to turn the ice-cold water you have drunk into tears。3、难道你怕一个深爱着你的痴情儿？Do you fear a love fool who is loving you so deeply?4、我要幸福的昏倒了！I am too happy to stand faint!5、月亮代表我的心！The moonlight stands for my heart!6、过得好么？希望世界因你而美丽！How are you getting on? I hope that the word will become more beautiful because of you!7、你在时你是一切，你不在时一切是你！You are everything when you are with me, and everything is you when you are not。

8、人生的悲哀是你遇上了一个对你很重要的人，他是你的一切。然而，你却没有办法留住他 A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go.9、爱情是：当感觉、热情和浪漫统统拿掉之后，你仍然珍惜对方。

Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance, and you find out you still care for that person.爱情是：当感觉、热情和浪漫统统拿掉之后，你仍然珍惜对方。Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. 纵然伤心，也不要愁眉不展，因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。

To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world. 对于世界而言，你是一个人；但是对于某个人，你是他的整个世界。Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you. 不要为那些不愿在你身上花费时间的人而浪费你的时间。

Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to. 不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful. 在遇到梦中人之前，上天也许会安排我们先遇到别的人；在我们终于遇见心仪的人时，便应当心存 感激。

Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened. 不要因为结束而哭泣，微笑吧，为你的曾经拥有。Life is apure flame,and we live by an invisible sun within us. 生命是一束纯净的火焰，我们依靠自己内心看不见的太阳而存在。

Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you. 在你尝试了解他人和盼望他人了解你之前，先把你变成一个更好的人和了解自己的人。I suddenly feel myself like a doll,acting all kinds of joys and sorrows. There are lots of shining siliery thread on my back,controlling all my action. 我突然就觉得自己像个华丽的木偶，演尽了所有的悲欢离合， 可是背上总是有无数闪亮的银色丝线，操纵 我的哪怕一举手一投足.I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you. 我爱你，不是因为你是一个怎样的人，而是因为我喜欢与你在一起时的感觉。

No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry. 没有人值得你流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them. 失去某人，最糟糕的莫过于，他近在身旁，却犹如远在天边。

Never frown, even when you are sad,because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. 纵然伤心，也不要愁眉不展，因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。I love you not for whom you are, but who I am when I 'm by your side. 我爱你并不是因为你是谁，而是因为我在你身边的时候我是谁。

No person deserves your tears, and who deserves them won't make you cry. 没有人值得你流泪，值得你流泪的人是不会让你哭的。Just because someone doesn't love you as you wish,it doesn't mean you're not loved with all his/her being. 只因为某人不如你所愿爱你，并不意味着你不被别人所爱。

The worst way to miss someone is to be seated by his/her side and know you'll never have him/her. 错过一个人最可怕的方式就是坐在他/她的身旁，你却知道永远都不会拥有他/她。Never stop smiling, not even when you're sad,someone might fall in love with your smile. 永远都不要停止微笑，即使是在你难过的时候，说不定有人会因为你的笑容而爱上你。

You may only be a person in this world,but for someone,you're the world. 你可能只是实际上的一个人，但对于某人来说，你就是全世界。Maybe God wants you to meet many 。

7.关于爱情的英文句

love is like a mirror: once broken, that ends it. 爱情好比镜子，一旦打破就难重圆。

More than anything in this world I want to spend the rest of my life with you.和你共渡余生，比任何一件事都重要！

Oh, dear. I want you to know that being with you, it's as good as it gets. 亲爱的，世上没有比跟你在一起更幸福的了。

Passionate love is a quenchless thirst. 热烈的爱情是不可抑制的渴望。

Thank you for loving me no way any one has ever tried.从来没有一个人像你这样爱我，谢谢你！

Those days when we were together appear in my mind time after time, because they were so joyful, happy, blest, disappointing, sad and painful. I miss you ,and miss you so mach……常常想起曾和你在一起的那些日子。开心、快乐、幸福、失落、伤心、痛苦的所有日子。很想你，很想你

What's the accomplishment of love? If marriage is the accomplishment, how about divorce? When I begin to love someone, it is the accomplishment of love.什么是爱情的完成呢？如果结婚才是爱的完成的话，那离婚又算什么呢？当我开始爱一个人的时候就是爱的完成。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

Why to ask so much when you are in love? If you ask too much, maybe you no longer love. The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present and the open-minded never ask the future.爱，有何必多问？问得太多，只怕就不爱了。成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。

You and I remains the same in different time, at different places,among different people; time is changing, space is changing and everything is changing except my miss to you！不同的时间，不同的地点，不同的人群，相同的只有你和我；时间在变，空间在变，不变的只有对你无限的思念

（希望能帮到你）

8.求英文的名言（爱情方面）

英语爱情名言 1、love is like war, easy to begin but hard to end. 爱就像一场战争，开战容易停火难。

2、Love opens your chest and opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. 爱扒开你的胸膛，掏出你的心脏，有人就乘机侵入你的心胸把你搞得一团糟。 3、Does God punish or reward us with love？ 爱，是上帝用来惩罚我们的还是奖赏我们的呢？ 4、Love your neighbor, but don't get caught. 爱你的邻家女孩吧，但注意不要被逮着了。

5、I love a hand that meets my own with a grasp that causes some sensation. 我喜爱这样的一只手，它的力度让我有几分感觉的手。 6、The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost. 珍爱一切的好办法是：意识到你可能会失去它。

7、Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away. 爱就像是握在手里的水银，把手指张开，它好好的呆在那里，要是你紧紧抓着，它反而溜走了。 8、If you judge people, you have no time to love them. 老是审视别人的话，你就腾不出时间去爱他们了。

9、A very small degree of hope is sufficient to cause the birth of love. 极其微弱的一线希望就足以点燃爱的火花。 10、At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet. 一谈到爱，每个人都变成了一位诗人。

11、Sometimes the perfect person for you is the one you least expect. 有时候，最适合你的人恰恰是你最没有想到的人。 12、How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard. 我是多么幸运啊，拥有一样东西让我的“再见”迟迟说不出口。

13、The Eskimos have 52 words for snow because it is so special for them; there ought to be as many for love！ 爱斯基摩人有52个分别表示“雪”的词语，因为雪在他们的生活中太重要了；我们也应该有这么多表达“爱”的词语啊！ 14、If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving one be me. 如果世上真的不存在两方对等的爱，就让付出更多的一方是我吧。 15、When two eyes meet and hold strongly, they are bound to meet again. 当两眼相遇久久凝视，这两双眼睛注定将会再一次相遇。

16、I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life. 我喜欢成家，拥有一个在自己的余生中特别想去得罪的人，这不是一件很美好的事情吗？ 17、Love doesn't make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile. 爱不是把地球变圆，爱是让环球旅行有价值。 18、To love is to be vulnerable. 去爱一个人就是把自己变得特别脆弱。

19、Love at first sight never happens before breakfast. 一见钟情的爱从来不会发生在饥肠辘辘的早餐以前。 20、To love is not to look at one another, but to look together in the same direction. 相爱不是你看我我看你，而是一起朝着相同的方向望去。

21、I wasn't kissing her, I was whispering in her mouth. 注意了，我不是在吻她，我只是在她的嘴边呢喃。 22、My love is like an ocean; it goes down so deep. My love is like a rose; whose beauty you want to keep. 我的爱就像浩瀚的海洋，它深沉厚重；我的爱就像芬芳的玫瑰，你疼爱珍重。

23、All shall be well, and Jack shall have Jill. 一切都会好起来，她会向你走过来。 24、First love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity. 初恋只是一分傻冒再加九分好奇。

25、When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out. 当你爱上一个人的时候，所有深藏在心的祝福都奔涌而出了。 26、Came but for friendship, and took away love. 你为友情而来，却把爱情带走。

27、For, you see, each day I love you more, today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow. 你看，每一天我都爱你多一些，今天比昨天多但比明天少。 28、Love doesn't sit there like a stone. It has to be made like bread; remade all the timemade new. 爱不是一块木头，一动不动的坐在那里；对待爱，要像做面包那样--反复揉搓，不断翻新。

29、A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears. 男人是透过他的眼睛捕捉爱意的，女人是通过她的耳朵体验爱意的。 30、Life is a flower of which love is the honey. 人生是鲜花，爱情是蜂蜜。

9.说几个关于爱情的英文短句

1、Do you have a map? Because I just keep losing in your eyes.你有地图么？因为我刚在你的眼神中迷失了.2、Meeting you was fate,and falling in love with you was out of my control.遇见你是命运的安排而爱上你是我情不自禁.3、There are two reasons why I wake up in the morning: my alarm clock and you.我早上愿意醒来为两个理由： 闹钟和你.4、It's not being in love that makes me happy, but is being in loving with you.不是恋爱的感觉让我幸福而是爱上你的感觉让我幸福.5、Love you so I don`t wanna go to sleep, for reality is better than a dream.爱你，所以不想入睡，因为真实比梦境还要美丽.6、It is graceful grief and sweet sadness to think of you, but in my heart, there is a kind of soft warmth that can't be expressed with any choice of words.想你，是一种美丽的忧伤的甜蜜的惆怅，心里面，却是一种用任何语言也无法表达的温馨。

7、Do you understand the feeling of missing someone? It is just like that you will spend a long hard time to turn the ice-cold water you have drunk into tears.你知道思念一个人的滋味吗，就像喝了一大杯冰水，然后用很长很长的时间流成热泪。8、I am too happy to stand faint！我要幸福的昏倒了！9、I can meet a person in a minute, like a person in an hour and love a person in a day, but it will take me a whole life to forget you.遇上一个人要一分钟的时间，喜欢一个人只需一小时的时间，爱上一个人要一天的时间，可要我忘记你却要用上一生的时间。

10、I prefer having your accompanying for life-long time to the short-time tenderness.我不要短暂的温存，只要你一世的陪伴。11、If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden.假如每次想起你我都会得到一朵鲜花，那么我将永远在花丛中徜徉。

12、Love keeps the cold out better than a cloak.爱比大衣更能驱走寒冷。13、y heart is with you.我的爱与你同在。

14、First love is unforgettable all one's life.初恋是永生难忘的。15、It is never too late to fall in love.爱永远不会嫌晚。

16、You make my heart smile.我的心因你而笑。

10.英语爱情哲理名言

Without you?I'd be a soul without a purpose.

Without you?I'd be an emotion without a heart

I'm a face without expression,A heart with no beat.

Without you by my side,I'm just a flame without the 没有你？ 我将是一个没有目的的灵魂；没有你？ 我的情感将没有了根基；我将是一张没有表情的脸；一颗停止跳动的心；没有你在我身边；我只是一束没有热量的火焰。

I love you not because of who you are,but because of who I am when I am with you.

我爱你，不是因为你是一个怎样的人，而是因为我喜欢与你在一起时的感觉。

No man or woman is worth your tears,and the one who is ,won't make you cry.

没有人值得你流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。

The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.

失去某人，最糟糕的莫过于，他近在身旁，却犹如远在天边。

Never frown,even when you are sad,because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

纵然伤心，也不要悉眉不展，因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。

To the world you may be one person,but to one person you may be the world.

对于世界而言，你是一个人；但是对于某人，你是他的整个世界。

Don't waste your time on a man/woman,who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

不要为那些不愿在你身上花费时间的人而浪费你的时间。

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to,doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

爱你的人如果没有按你所希望的方式爱你，那并不代表他们没有全心全意地爱你。

Don't try to hard,the best things come when you least expect them to.

不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one,so that when we finally meet the person,we will know how to be grateful.

在遇到梦中人之前，上天也许会安排我们先遇到别人；在我们终于遇见心仪的人时，便应当心存感激。

Don't cry because it is over,smile because it happened.

不要因为结束而哭泣，微笑吧，为你的曾经拥有。

世界上有两种婚姻：糟糕的婚姻和艰辛的婚姻

世界上有两种婚姻:糟糕的婚姻和艰辛的婚姻！

——理查德.埃克斯利

There are two kinds of marriages: bad marriage and hard marriage！

——Richard Exley

许多年前读到过这个句子，但当时刚结婚不久，尽管有些困惑，但是没去深挖其含义，现在自己的婚姻挺过了风风雨雨三十年，对此句有了深刻的认识！

I came across the sentence not long after I walked down the aisle,bewildered as I was, I didn't dig its profound meaning. And now I have been almost 30 years into the marriage, and we have together gone through rain and shine of it, which makes me have a deeper understanding of the sentence.

成功的婚姻是要靠双方苦苦经营！回想起来，我也很多次差点就放弃，清楚记得第一次感觉自己很累，快支撑不下去是在结婚不久，老公在异地工作，经济条件也不行，再加上要了孩子，那时候很委屈。因为这绝对不是我所希望的浪漫的婚姻生活。

Successful marriage undoubtedly depends on both sides to take pains to manage it. Looking back on the early years of my marriage, Many a time have I been on the point of giving up. The first time I felt I would break came not long after my marriage, when my husband worked in another city far from where we lived and I gave birth to my eldest son. I felt helpless and depressed. I felt it wasn't the romance I had expected of my marital life.

还好遇到困难时，我们会尽力解决，尽量把风险降到最低，后来在家人的帮助下，我们熬过了那段艰难时期。老公也调回来了我身边。

Thankfully we fixed the problems and minimized the risk with the help of our family, and our marriage survived the most difficult period of time.Fortunately my husband was back by transfering his job to the city where we live now.

但是正如唐顿庄园的老妇人所说的那样，生活就是一系列的问题，我们必须努力解决，解决完一个，又出现一个，再解决，再出现，一直到我们死去。

But all life is a series of problems, as Dowager Countess said in Downton Abbey ,which we must try to solve,first one,and then the next, and then the next, until at last we die.

其实我们根本不是意气相投，更不是灵魂伴侣，有一段时间我们之间交流不太好，感情上的亲昵就越来越少，有时候会有语言上的冲突，尽管我们都没有外遇，对我们的婚姻也忠贞不渝，但已经没有了激情，感觉这样下去，我们的婚姻也快走到了尽头。

As a matter of fact, we are not congenial to each other, let alone soul mates. We don't have anything in common.There was a time when we didn't communicate very well, and barely had emotional intimacy, though we both didn't have any affair and were also committed to our marriage .Our life lacked original passion and if we went on like this, we might end in divorce.

我们努力找原因，最后发现忙不完的家务事和工作压力是主要的原因，我们认识到工作固然重要，但是婚姻家庭应该是更重要的，所以我们通过休假，旅游等来减轻压力，现在无论我们多么繁忙，我们每年都会去旅游，在旅游中我们敞开心扉来交流，因为我们发现在平时，我们喜欢压制我们的情感，尤其是我们对相互的不满，这些情绪越堆积越多，如果得不到宣泄或解决，那就会伤害到双方，就像人们说的:千里之堤，溃于蚁穴。

We were trying hard to find the reasons ,and finally we found endless chores and pressure from our work were to blame. Although we couldn't afford to neglect our jobs ,we were supposed to make marriage and family our top priorities. So we agreed on whatever tight schedules we had, we must take a travel annually. And now it is a time for us to have a meaningful communication and mend fences with each other ,because we have found we both suppress anger especially some negative feelings and don't confide in each other. If built up and not properly released, they will drain our feelings, just as the saying goes: A small leak will sink a great ship.

所以今天反思理查德.埃克斯利的这句名言:世上只有两种婚姻，一个是糟糕的，另一个是艰辛的，其中"艰辛"的意思应该是:没有完美的婚姻，幸福的婚姻需要我们付出努力去经营，从而使得它最大程度地趋于完美！

"There are two kinds of marriages: bad marriage and hard marriage"—this famous saying by Richard Exley serves the purpose when it comes to a successful marriage ！I think 'hard ' literally means we should try hard to manage our marriage! After all ,no marriage is perfect! What we do is to make it closest to perfection as it can be ！